fix: optimize packages upload memory (#39366)

Bound the memory used when parsing uploaded packages, so instances with
low memory limits survive non-standard packages.

1. Metadata files are read through a size-limited reader, archives
themselves stay unbounded so large payloads keep working
2. zstd decoding caps the window at 128 MiB, the zstd CLI default
3. RPM headers go through a first-party reader with rpmlib's size and
array count limits that allocates only what the upload contains, until
https://github.com/sassoftware/go-rpmutils/pull/44 is released. Signing
still verifies the payload digest, and its signature header matches
rpmsign's byte for byte
4. Swift and NuGet read the zip entry they size-checked, a duplicate
name could stand in for it before
5. Terraform states check `LIMIT_SIZE_TERRAFORM_STATE` before parsing,
NuGet symbol PDBs share a 256 MiB budget
6. Oversized container configs are rejected instead of stored without
metadata, invalid Vagrant boxes answer 400 instead of 500

Signed-off-by: techknowlogick <git@tklk.dev>
Co-authored-by: techknowlogick <git@tklk.dev>
Co-authored-by: silverwind <me@silverwind.io>
Co-authored-by: techknowlogick <techknowlogick@gitea.com>

routers/api/packages/container/container.go

@@ -588,6 +588,8 @@ func PutManifest(ctx *context.Context) {
 			apiErrorDefined(ctx, namedError)
 		} else if errors.Is(err, container_model.ErrContainerBlobNotExist) {
 			apiErrorDefined(ctx, errBlobUnknown)
+		} else if errors.Is(err, util.ErrInvalidArgument) {
+			apiErrorDefined(ctx, errManifestInvalid.WithMessage(err.Error()))
 		} else if errors.Is(err, packages_service.ErrQuotaTotalCount) || errors.Is(err, packages_service.ErrQuotaTypeSize) || errors.Is(err, packages_service.ErrQuotaTotalSize) {
 			apiError(ctx, http.StatusForbidden, err)
 		} else {