chore: Upgrade xorm to 1.4.1 (#38224)

Fix #22275

Changelog: https://gitea.com/xorm/xorm/compare/v1.3.11..v1.4.1

go.mod

@@ -118,7 +118,7 @@ require (
 	mvdan.cc/xurls/v2 v2.6.0
 	strk.kbt.io/projects/go/libravatar v0.0.0-20260301104140-add494e31dab
 	xorm.io/builder v0.3.13
-	xorm.io/xorm v1.3.11
+	xorm.io/xorm v1.4.1
 )
 
 require (