refactor: use modernc sqlite driver as default (#37562)

The mattn driver is still kept, can be enabled by
TAGS="sqlite_mattn sqlite_unlock_notify"

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Co-authored-by: TheFox0x7 <thefox0x7@gmail.com>

flake.nix

@@ -83,7 +83,7 @@
                 GO = "${go}/bin/go";
                 GOROOT = "${go}/share/go";
 
-                TAGS = "sqlite sqlite_unlock_notify";
+                TAGS = "";
                 STATIC = "true";
               }
               // linuxOnlyEnv;